tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-249229422024-03-18T23:04:40.136-04:00Adventures of the Dominican RepublicMike and Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00315103876397876586noreply@blogger.comBlogger244125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24922942.post-89567889024394425282014-11-02T05:30:00.002-05:002014-11-02T05:34:02.340-05:00Orphan SundayToday is Orphan Sunday. A day dedicated to kids in desperate situations. A day dedicated to kids, that every second are being abandoned, neglected and abused. A day that brings light to a subject that is hard for people to talk about, let alone feel like there's anything they can do.<br />
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But today can be different for you. For a child. For this hurting world.<br />
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All over the United States, churches will be gathering and participating in Orphan Sunday. There is nothing that brings us more joy than to know there are 24 hours where orphans will be on the forefront of people's minds. Since God has called us to open Hope House we have been consumed with thoughts of hurting children out there with nowhere to go. Children who are feeling confused, lonely, lost and unloved because of their circumstances. We have broken down time and time again over stories, horrific stories, that we have heard since beginning this journey. We know that for too many children around the world, their lives have been altered and there is only a small window of opportunity to remind them, and show them, that they are worth it.<br />
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Today, as you are making breakfast, having your morning coffee, dressing for the day, walking into your churches...would you consider praying?<br />
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Pray for children RIGHT NOW who have been abandoned by the very people they thought loved them.<br />
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Pray for children who have been sexually exploited and who every moment feel less and less worthy of the love they rightfully deserve.<br />
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Pray for healing, both physical and emotional, for kids who have been beaten and abused and who only know that kind of life.<br />
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Pray for orphanages that every year are filling more and more, with less and less room and resources to care for the children in need.<br />
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Pray for orphanage workers who are weighed down by the job they've been charged to do, knowing the difficulties that laid before and lie ahead of the children in their care.<br />
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Pray for how God would want you to respond to the overwhelming need in orphan-care. Fostering? Domestic or International adoption? Giving toward reputable causes? <br />
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These kids need us. We need you. Hope House needs you.<br />
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We have a big feat ahead of us. A whopping $250,000 to raise to buy the orphanage property and begin construction. If God is tugging at your heart, inspiring you to give, asking you to help, would you consider donating today and helping us make this dream a reality? In return helping us change a child's future, making them see their worth and giving them hope.<br />
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On the sidebar of our blog there is a Paypal link.<br />
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$10. Start with $10. Maybe down the road God will ask you to do more. But start with $10. Ask your friends to start with $10. Ask your churches to start with $10. Make a step towards ending the cycle of orphans.<br />
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<b>Stand in the gap for those who are hurting.</b><br />
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<i>"One hundred years from now may it never be said of this generation of ezers that we folded our hands and left God's kingdom work to others. May it never be said that we ignored the cries of the helpless and focused on ourselves. Let it instead be said that God used those cries to awaken a sleeping [giant] and filled [them] with a terrible resolve...the church, angered and outraged at the unchecked forces of evil in God's world. That we made up our minds to do something, that our efforts forced the darkness to recede, and that we left the world better off than we found it. May we be remembered as a generation who caught God's vision, faced our fears, and rose up to serve His cause." </i></blockquote>
<br />Mike and Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00315103876397876586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24922942.post-2122331806360871912014-10-22T13:30:00.000-04:002014-10-22T13:30:10.281-04:00Hope House Intl. Video<div style="text-align: center;">
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This. Is. Amazing. Our good friend, Reid Olson (Storyteller Multimedia) came and shot this fundraising video for us and Hope House. What a talented friend we have. Please watch. <b> </b></div>
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<a href="http://vimeo.com/109713357">Hope House International</a> from <a href="http://vimeo.com/user9428383">Reid Olson</a> on <a href="https://vimeo.com/">Vimeo</a>.</div>
Mike and Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00315103876397876586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24922942.post-74675223485466877352014-07-21T11:30:00.000-04:002014-07-21T20:54:17.411-04:00Two Words<div style="text-align: center;">
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There are few words that bring on a mixture of emotions like the two I am about to write: We're Moving. </div>
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The middle of the night has become my think-tank. For the past year, there have been very few nights where I haven't woken up for a few hours with a racing mind. In the past four months, my thoughts have been consumed with planning, details, playing devil's advocate, hoping, praying and just plain being excited for what's ahead with Hope House.</div>
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Three nights ago, I woke up to feed a hungry baby. He went back to sleep, I did not. We have a huge mountain ahead of us in raising $500,000 ($250,000 just so we can purchase land). It has seemed impossible to me. It feels like more than I am capable of fathoming. But as I was wallowing in my own pity party an idea came to me that I had never thought before. What if we rent the property while we wait for the money to come in? <i>No, that's crazy</i>, I said to myself. <i>The owner would never go for it.</i> Before God laid this vision on our hearts to give a home to the hurting, I would have brushed off this idea. Afraid that the owner would say no before I even knew what he would say, and not even act on the thought because of my fear of rejection. Not anymore. I'm not afraid of much; there are kids who need a home.</div>
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So I casually mentioned it to Mike the next day. "Why didn't I think of that?" he said. And almost immediately, he called the owner and set up a meeting. I don't know why I am still surprised when God does amazing things. He's done it so many times in the last four months I should write a book about it. But when Mike came back from the meeting I was surprised, gratefully surprised.</div>
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When Mike suggested that we rent the property from the owner until we come up with the money to buy, the owner about jumped out of his skin with excitement. And to make a long, beautiful story short, we are moving in August...to the land where Hope House will be built. And what's more amazing? The rent that we will be paying the owner? He's going to count every cent of it toward our final costs. And at the end of the conversation, Mike said both the owner and his wife had tears running down their faces in awe of how God moves; how He works for those who love Him and want to bring Him glory.</div>
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So we're moving. Moving away from everything we have known for the last eight years. Moving to a community we know nothing about. Moving our family into a new phase of ministry, uncharted territories. Moving away from all of our friends. Moving out of our comfort zone.</div>
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But, oh, we are moving towards something so incredible. Moving toward making a home for children who feel confused by their life circumstances. Moving to a place that God has prepared ahead of time for us and whatever little ones will be placed in our care. Moving into new roles as "parents" with the opportunity to love those who have never felt it before.</div>
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Our world has become increasingly hateful. People feel more entitled to their opinions, and to act harshly based on their opinions, than ever before. We have somehow even disconnected our hateful actions towards others from the fact that they are humans; living, breathing, children of God. Despite what others believe, their religious backgrounds or lack thereof, as Christians our foundation is based upon a Savior who died for all, even those that do not acknowledge him as Lord. That leads me to believe that all people are precious children of His, regardless of the labels and judgements we place on them. <br />
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There is a reason that so many of us are drawn to the indescribable "force field" a child possesses. I sit in awe of my children and how they can play for hours with a tree branch and a few pebbles. Suddenly, our backyard is transformed into a deep forest and those pebbles are all the berries they have to survive on. But it is not just their imagination that draws us to them. There is an innocence about them, an untainted canvas that has the ability to make even the most wretched soul join them in their world free of worry, regret and judgement.<br />
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When Jesus talks about us becoming like children, he is asking us to take on humility, teachability, dependence. We have the opportunity to learn from the little ones that are placed in our care and in our circle of influence. He is revealing through them a way for us to take the jaded film that covers ours eyes and show us how He sees the world, how he sees His beloved. <br />
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In places like The Hole, La Mosca, The Bateys, Haiti; most of us adults can only see the things our Earthly eyes can assess. Hunger, devistation, abuse...we look at things by face value. But if we view these places with the eyes of a child we can see so much more.<br />
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I love taking my daughter to The Hole. She sticks out like a sore thumb with her bright blonde hair and porcelain complexion but somehow she transforms into someone else as I watch her. She doesn't think twice about playing with another child that has a ripped shirt and no shoes. She has no reservations about shaking the hand of a man, who also happens to be a drug addict. She willingly gives hugs to women who dabble in prostitution. Children are given a natural-born ability to love, without hesitation, without judgement. The kind of love God asks each of us to display to others regardless of the differences between us.<br />
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When we step out of our comfort zone and walk onto foreign soil, God begins to slowly transform us with child-likeness. It's why so many of us return to our homes saying we had come to minister to others but ended up being ministered to, ourselves. We hug addicts, bring food to the hungry, play with kids who live in trash dumps...suddenly our world view doesn't contain words of judgement or opinion, we just do what we were created to do; love...like a child loves.<br />
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The difficulty arrives as we step on a plane and start the trek back to our lives before we saw the world with child-like eyes. Will we be graceful with our neighbor who drinks too much and plays their music too loud? Will we bring a meal to the homeless man who sits on his same corner, day after day? Will we stop plastering our opinions and judgmental renegades all over Facebook thinking that somehow by forcing others to see our way, they will suddenly conform to our beliefs?<br />
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We forget that Jesus was attractive to us when we first met Him because He loved us when we were broken, damaged and forgotten people. Jesus didn't walk into our homes, list off the horrendous things we'd done in our lives and tell us we were hopeless. He didn't ask us to put down the bottle or take a shower or come back to him when we had our stuff all together. No, he loved us where we were, in our broken state, with the stench of our past still on our clothes. <br />
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And he expects nothing less from each of us.Mike and Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00315103876397876586noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24922942.post-58152431407302313822013-06-06T15:50:00.000-04:002013-06-06T17:00:31.975-04:00Photo of the Week...5.28-6.4<a href="http://s1039.photobucket.com/user/braisteds/media/Photo%20of%20the%20Week/PhotooftheWeek528-64_zps71d739e1.jpg.html" target="_blank"><img alt=" photo PhotooftheWeek528-64_zps71d739e1.jpg" border="0" src="http://i1039.photobucket.com/albums/a474/braisteds/Photo%20of%20the%20Week/PhotooftheWeek528-64_zps71d739e1.jpg" /></a><br />
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As you walk down the concrete-cracked steps to The Hole many things pass through your mind, especially if it's your first time there. The houses are brimmed with rusted, tin roofs and the children are missing shoes. Stray dogs scurry from drain to drain hoping a good second-hand meal might make its way to them. Old men sit in groups, smoking unfiltered cigarettes, drinking rum through missing teeth. Not exactly the place you'd go to find hope, or even a friendly handshake.<br />
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Every time I make my way to the bottom of those unending stairs I can almost feel the weight of this place burdened heavy on my back. Like, even if I came feeling light and free, I'd take on cargo just by walking this first stretch. Fortunately, like in every good drama or iconic story, there's a turn, a fork in the road that changes the seemingly dark, presumed ending.<br />
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At the first left-turn, the view changes. Kids that were previously sitting on the concrete bench in the alley, light up at their first glimpse of you. Running into your arms, giving you high fives, hugging you with a force beyond their own strength...it's magical. And I have to fight back tears almost every time, not understanding how they could love so much with receiving so little in their own worlds.<br />
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As you drag your posse of kids along with you, curious neighbors step out of their homes. The woman dressed scantily, lots of piercings and tattoos, lots of emotional scars. The man with half-opened eyes, perched at his doorstep, trying to sleep off the night before. The teenager with the severely baggy pants, wearing his mask of "street cred" covering up the scared little boy behind it. Each of them with their own hang-ups, still wishing they were a kid so they, too, could jump into someone's arms and feel loved again.<br />
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Just ahead you see the steps to the Cuerpo de Cristo church that was built next to a roaring river of trash, sewage and debris. Hardly visible is a man sitting there with a swarm of kids around him. As you move closer he raises his head and you see him clearly. Gentle eyes, warm smile, good heart. His name is Rafael.<br />
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A place like The Hole hardens people. Some may say it's a good way to protect yourself, to not let yourself feel. The horrible things that happen daily there would leave one in a coma if they allowed themselves to be vulnerable to it. But where so many others have gained hard lines on their faces from years of life leaving them, Rafael exudes grace. His face remains untainted by the remnants of despair all around him.<br />
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He's become a brother, a friend, a place of refuge for the kids who have no father figure to turn to. He hugs and twirls and bends down low if he has something important to say. He talks with worried mothers and lost teenagers and questioning toddlers...and to me, when I'm all fired up about another young girl in the community who's gotten pregnant.<br />
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I imagine that Rafael carries some of the same burdens the rest of the people in The Hole do but somehow he transforms it into a smile. Not a forced one, or a fake one, but a real, genuine smile that puts people at ease, kids and adults alike. His job is not an easy one, and some days he looks rugged with exhaustion, but he <i>chooses</i> joy. He <i>chooses</i> grace. He <i>chooses</i> kindness. He may not have chosen this path that he is on but there is one thing that is very clear to me...<br />
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...God chose him for it.Mike and Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00315103876397876586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24922942.post-85455140151190363612013-05-28T11:19:00.002-04:002013-05-28T11:43:33.383-04:00Photo of the Week...5.21-5.28<div style="text-align: left;">
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My perspective was different than most everyone else. From the front of the room I saw neutral-hued hands lifted high, the glory of God filling the place. Four countries represented, one hundred and eighty chairs filled with people unified by international partnership. Voices of every tone, many tongues, one language -- worship.</div>
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I believe with all my heart that God knew exactly what He was doing when He placed sound in our voice boxes, music in our souls. He knew that for most, just words preached or hands clenched or eyes closed wouldn't be enough. That song would bring Heaven to Earth, washing unending love and grace over His people. </div>
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I could hardly make out my own words as tears streamed from the corners of my eyes, down my reddened cheeks. "How Great Thou Art" echoed into our ears, strengthened our cause, unified our hearts. In that moment, as some sang in English, others in Spanish and Creole, I could feel a glimpse of the Eternal Home so many of us long for.</div>
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Some wept and some smiled, while others swayed their burdens away. You could feel His peace, sweeping through a chilled conference room that has perhaps previously hosted weddings or business meetings. But this night, at this hour, it was God's Temple. A place where people gathered and were reminded of God's awesome power spanning into our troubled world. If only for a moment, all pain, sorrow, troubles -- vanished. If our souls could carry us, we may have lifted from the ground.</div>
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There is something indescribable about community, regardless of race, language or background. As this broken world continues to struggle, emerge by its lonesome, we found something that night that binds and bonds. God's ultimate redemption plan laid out for all to see through the thankful words of adoration to a Father who adores His children. </div>
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You can trace the lines on her face to the years of hardship she has endured. Day after day, harvesting and sorting beans to sell in order to provide what little she can for her family. In the early morning she sits below a sparcely-leaved tree, protecting herself from the already blazing sun. It's her spot, hardly comfortable but its familiarity somehow comforting.</div>
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On every trip I've taken to Phaeton, I have wanted to take her picture. But in Haiti, because of Voodoo, there are many adults who believe that by taking their photo you can steal their soul. Other Haitians won't allow it because of the vast amount of "good-intentioned people" who come to Haiti, take photos of their living conditions and make promises to bring help, but then never do. Something in me that day felt bold and I took a chance. I'm glad I did.</div>
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There are just times in this season of my life where I am taken back by something seemingly ordinary that appears extraordinary to something deep in my soul. And when I took the time to stop and gaze upon her aging face I saw grace, dignity and peace; all things I can only hope to aquire someday.</div>
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I was walking through The Hole with one of the short-term mission teams and as I passed by a little alleyway, I saw her. I am rarely taken back by anything in The Hole anymore but for some reason she made me stop. She hardly noticed me at first but I don't like to take pictures of people without their permission so I quietly greeted her in creole and asked if I could take her picture. I snapped a shot of her and her son and then asked in Spanish how old he was. No response. She didn't speak Spanish. I pointed to him and then held up a number one, then two, then three. She shook her head and held up the number one. One month old.</div>
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One of the biggest commonalities our two cultures share is motherhood. And I can't even tell you how much my eyes have been opened since I've become a mother myself. And although I only stood at her doorstep for twenty seconds, I couldn't keep her out of my mind for hours after.</div>
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I wondered about her life and the things she did daily. A simple task like bathing a newborn can be a little more challenging in a washbasin with cold water. Her son <i>clearly</i> was not enjoying himself. I thought of my own babies during bath time in a comfortable baby bath shaped like a cradle with warm water and lavender-smelling suds. Neither of my kids ever made a peep during their baths. In fact, I would suffice to say it may have been their favorite time of day.</div>
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I wondered if she had a husband that cared for her like mine does. Someone who supports her dreams and encourages her in all aspects of her life. Do they lie in bed at night talking about the funny things their other kids say or the new noise the baby is making now? Do they go through the next days' agenda, planning out who is going to do what and where help is going to be needed? Do they even have a bed? Or an agenda?</div>
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Does she have a mother that adores her and who sacrificed everything so that she could go to school, play sports, indulge in creativity and art? Or a father who taught her how to shoot a perfect free-throw or who played catch in the front yard as the sun was setting on the day? Or sisters who fought with her, like all sisters do, but when push came to shove would drop everything to be there for her? Did she even have a mom? or a dad? or sisters? Were they there when the Earthquake hit? Did they make it through? Did they only come to Santiago because everything they had in Haiti was destroyed?</div>
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I know nothing about her and I have never walked a mile in her shoes -- or an inch, for that matter. But for all I know she is happy. Basking in the glow of being the new mom of a healthy baby boy. Going about her day, checking things off her mental list of things to do, taking one moment at a time. Something as simple as bathing her baby; him, exercising his voice box -- her calm and peaceful, reminded me of how many bath times I've rushed my kids through. Sometimes raising my voice at them because they wanted to play longer than I wanted them too. In no time at all, her little newborn will be walking and talking and in no time at all I will be sending mine off to college. </div>
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If you hop in a van and take a short ride from our neighborhood you enter a small community just on the outskirts of town. Structured buildings and street vendors turn to cow pastures and wooden shacks. The road is chaotic with potholes and loose pieces of concrete -- a reminder of its out-in-the-middle-of-nowhere status.</div>
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When arriving at so many barrios on this island I almost always have to take a deep breath in and prepare myself for the heartache that festers in me long after I leave. Los Perez is <i>not</i> one of those places. Although the signs of poverty are everywhere, a sense of peace lingers still. I don't know if it is the humble people that live in the community, the rickety path you have to take to enter it or the laid back personalities of the children...but whatever it is, it is good.</div>
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I never feel anxious or worried about what will greet me. In fact, I know there is one face that I will always look forward to seeing. I've never met anyone that smiles with their whole self like he does. He is never short on hand shakes or hugs and he always responds to a simple "how ya doin'" with "todo uva" or our version of "just peachy."</div>
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He knows every child in his nutrition center by their first and last names and knows where each of them lives. He always starts their mealtime ritual by teaching the kids scripture. I have witnessed first-hand, 70-some children re-sighting bible verses that most adults wouldn't even attempt. He excitedly points out an 11-year old girl who has memorized 34 scriptures and counting.</div>
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Pastor Nico grew up in the church and always felt a real connection to God. He watched his own father preach from the pulpit every Sunday. He recalls a woman in his father's church who would always entice him to come to sunday school with the promise of a piece of candy. It was that candy that kept him coming back. It was that candy that brought him to a place where he heard God's word. It's because of that candy that he knew God was calling him to be a pastor. Nico started his ministry in Los Perez with that very same type of candy. He knew that all he would have to do was get the kids to the church and God would do the rest. <br />
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remember the feel of the stadium lights shining down on me. I remember
the emotions filling me up as I put my arms around my teammates for the last
time. Taking in each face, each moment on the field, each touch of a
soccer ball I felt on my well-worn cleats. I don't remember every game I ever
played. I don't remember how many goals I scored or how many girls I kept
from scoring. I don't remember every field I played on or how many miles
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who lost his battle with cancer. I never met Tommy Carter Barnes but this
week I saw his legacy lived out through the lives he poured into. These
men worked from early morning to early evening demonstrating batting stances,
proper throwing technique, and teachings on waiting for the right pitch.
They hugged and high-fived and fist-bumped a group of Dominican boys
eager to learn, not only to be great baseball players, but also to be Godly men
of integrity, discipline and character.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
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group of young boys in our baseball academy but have also committed to our
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country, good, male role models are hard to come by. That doesn’t mean they
don't exist, it’s just not the cultural norm. But on a baseball field
lined with apartment complexes and broken down buildings, four men reminded me
of how important investing in others really is.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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and mentors to 210 young men desperately seeking someone to believe in them.
I have seen their dedication as they walk past my house every morning
around 8:30 and don't pass by again until sometime after 5:00. They always
walk by with baseball players in tow who are asking questions, playing practical
jokes on each other, laughing and practicing their swing in the middle of the
street. I had the unique opportunity this week to watch these four in
action.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They don’t just show up at the
field and do their “job” and hurry home.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
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are the transformations that Christ did in each of them and a group of men from
the United States who have committed to pouring into their lives so that they
can pour into the lives of others using baseball as a catalyst.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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I have trouble with the hard questions, just like anybody else. I serve a God that many people refuse to believe in because of the evil that wreaks havoc in our world. I've seen hurt in people's eyes I can't erase. I've heard stories that keep me up at night. I know how people feel when they want to believe but just can't. </div>
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I don't understand why little boys are beaten or why fathers leave their families. I don't understand why men's obsession with sex leads to prostitution and sex slavery. I don't understand why children go hungry and thousands die every day. These are all things I don't understand.</div>
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But what I have come to understand over the last decade is that my God is working ever so meticulously to restore a world he created and a people he fiercely loves. It may not be on our time table or accomplished in our agenda but he works, without growing weary and never ceasing.</div>
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Every time I am on the drive to La Mosca I mentally prepare myself for what I will enter into. We pass through the bustling city with vegetable venders and cute clothing boutiques to a community where trash burns, naked children roam the streets and people pick through garbage for a meal.</div>
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The summer of 2012 a medical group went to La Mosca to do a clinic for the children in the nutrition center. We saw the usual cases of coughs and colds, skin infections and respiratory issues. But as the day was coming to a close a young boy walks in carrying his little sister. The boy looked healthy enough, although not wearing any shoes. I looked him over wondering if he just came in for a check up or if he had other business at the nutrition center. </div>
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As the blonde-headed baby he was holding turned around my heart instantly hurt and I did my best to not show it on my face. In his arms was a child that looked to be no more than a year old with sparse hair, sunken eyes and skin that was literally sloughing off. I walked over to them and holding back tears I touched the little girls' face. She didn't react. Not a smile, not a wince, nothing. Just staring blankly at me with dark eyes.</div>
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I walked them over to one of the doctors and they sat down. The horrified look on her face said more to me than if we had exchanged words. She listened to her heart, checked her nose and ears, looked at the swollen, red skin and the pieces that were flaking off. The doctor's expression changed from being horrified to being angry. Her face reddened as she said that the child was in the final stages of malnutrition. It wouldn't be long before her organs shut down.</div>
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I held a stern face as a tear began to fall from the corner of my eye. I translated to the brother in the gentlest way possible about his sister's condition. He sat stoic as if I had just told him my favorite color was green. Everything in me wanted to snatch the little girl from his tiny hands and run away with her. But I've been here, in this moment, enough times to know that me adopting every child who is mistreated is both impossible and unhelpful.</div>
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We sent for the mother, a local prostitute and mother of six, and when she arrived I burned with anger. I wanted nothing more than to give her a piece of my mind but quickly moved my thoughts to what would be best for her daughter. With the doctors' help I explained the fate of her daughter if there was no intervention. The mother sat there with an emotionless expression barely looking at the little one on her lap or any of us. She told us her daughter was almost two and a half and we all tried not to react to what seemed to be impossible.</div>
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She walked out the door carting the little girl on her hip as if she was a piece of luggage and not a fragile child. I felt the urge to rescue her, thinking to myself that when I returned to La Mosca again I would hear news of her passing.</div>
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A few months later we visited again and again the little girl came in with her siblings, no change in her condition, but at least still alive. This time there was another staff member with me who was just as enraged as I was and we started talking to Pastor Luis about options. Calling the police for child abuse? Calling social services to have her taken from the home? Asking the mom if we could adopt her? All of these options Pastor Luis said would cause a lot of problems in the community and especially for the church. People would view it as the Pastor ripping families apart and sticking his nose in business that wasn't his to be concerned with. We talked to the older siblings and told them to talk to their mom. And that was it. They were out the door.</div>
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Fast forward to this week. I saw "La Mosca" on the schedule again. My heart sank. I mentally prepared myself for the inevitable. It had been three months since I visited and I was sure the little girl was gone. Standing in the nutrition center I watched all of the kids pile in, scanning the room for a tiny little thing with sparse, blonde hair. Suddenly, I saw a familiar twelve year old boy, carrying a blond-headed baby. Her face turned toward me, just like the first day that I saw her, but this time bright eyes and chubby cheeks greeted me. She walked, yes walked, to her spot on the nutrition center floor and began to eat. I looked her over, every ounce of sloughing skin was gone. Except for a few remaining scars her skin almost glowed. I kneeled down next to her and touched her cheek and this time, she smiled. A proud smile, like she knew what she had done was something special. Like she knew she was giving this girl with her big, clunky camera...hope.</div>
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I know people wonder what they could possibly do to right what is so wrong in this world. I know people wonder how a God that is supposedly so good could sit back and watch his children suffer. But I know, as He has taken me on this intimate road of knowing Him, that His plans are so much grander than anything we could ever imagine. Even when we don't understand Him, He is still there working. And if a doctor hadn't decided to come on a missions trip and find a small way to right what <i>is</i> so wrong in this world, that little girl wouldn't be here with us today. <br />
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I believe whole-heartedly that God could have wiped away all of her infirmities on His own but He chose to use us, not for his benefit, but for ours.</div>
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Our little friend from The Hole, Arianni, is at home recovering after surgery to "clip" the tendons on the backs of both her legs, with the hope that it would relieve the tension and allow her to eventually be able to walk more normally.<br />
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She can only lay down or sit for the next 15 days and has an appointment to remove the casts on December 11th and begin physical therapy.<br />
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And even though she was bored and in pain she, of course, still had her golden smile on...Mike and Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00315103876397876586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24922942.post-10765071330746824692012-10-16T12:47:00.001-04:002012-10-16T20:53:55.248-04:00this Hope and this Future<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I used to be a very negative person. I saw the glass half empty. I prepared for the worst and never expected the best. I never felt a sense of peace or contentment. Although I still struggle with some negativity, I have rid most of my life of its presence.</div>
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I prefer to speak of possibility, hope and expectation. My life's passion is empowering others to recognize their inner strength and to dedicate their lives to serving God with the gifts and talents He's provided them with. We all come with negative baggage but my dreams are filled with being a part of God's redemption story in others.<br />
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Over the years I've grown tired, perhaps even angry, at the amount of Christians who preach the "you are a horrible sinner and are going to die" sermon to unbelievers, as if that would motivate someone ridden with guilt, confusion and pain, to come into the loving arms of the Christ I know. We all know the reality; we are sinners, we are going to die, we go to hell without Christ. But shoving that in someone's face who hasn't experienced, or even knows about the grace and mercy Christ offered us on the cross, can only leave someone feeling as if they don't deserve a love like that anyway.<br />
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Through time, God has molded me into the kind of person that extends grace and forgiveness pretty easily but lately, I feel like He has been reminding me of the reality of who I still am as a human. I've talked in several posts that God has been sharpening my character, so painfully sometimes, that I wonder how I could ever change a certain aspect of who I am so drastically. And it is just as true today.<br />
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As much as I loathe hearing one more pastor or warrior of the faith preach on our inherent evil, the reality of it is still truth. If, as believers, we ever forget that at our core we are simply just sinners and think we are past the trials of the flesh, I think it is just as dangerous as living in a state of self-pity and self-loathing over our evil heritage. Because of the state of hearts, an innocent and blameless man died a brutal death as the only atoning sacrifice to reconnect us with God. If we ever forget that, it makes what He did for us, cheap.<br />
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A couple of weeks ago, I was feeling especially proud of myself and all that God was allowing me to be a part of. I even went as far as to reminisce on the person I once was and what a stark contrast of that person I am today. As I was journaling, amidst words of hope and excitement, out of nowhere I began to write these words;<br />
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"You sacrificed for me. You died for me. Not just a simple death. But a brutal death. You knew it was going to be this way and yet you did it for ME. You saw my face in the crowd, you looked into my eyes as I scoffed at you. As I spit in your face and called you names. As I mocked your crown of thorns and laughed at the blood dripping down your face. You met my eyes, in all your suffering, and whispered to me, 'I love you, child. I'm doing this for you.' And you'd do it again, to show me over and over how much you love me."</blockquote>
At the end of writing the last words, tears were streaming down my face. It was as if my soul had forgotten the reason I am who I am today. The reality of who I once was, and the person I still am, reminded me that everyday I can live, if only for God's grace and to extend that grace to others.<br />
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The difficult balance of being proud of the people we've become because of Christ and the reality that we were destined for an eternity of damnation <i>should</i> create just enough tension to keep us humble. But in fact, somewhere along the line we cheapen the sacrifice Christ made by boasting in what good people we've become. At the same time we also cheapen the sacrifice Christ made by dwelling on the innate evil within us, canceling out the fact that through Christ we were made a new creation.<br />
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We are a new life, a new creation. This gives us the motivation to share this Hope and this Future with others, especially those who don't feel they could ever deserve it. But we need never to forget the sacrifice that was made on our behalf that gave us this Hope and this Future that we now possess.<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><b><i><span class="text Eph-4-22" id="en-NIV-29295">"You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off <sup class="crossreference" style="line-height: normal; vertical-align: top;" value="(<a href="#cen-NIV-29295AV" title="See cross-reference AV">AV</a>)"></sup>your old self,<sup class="crossreference" style="line-height: normal; vertical-align: top;" value="(<a href="#cen-NIV-29295AW" title="See cross-reference AW">AW</a>)"></sup> which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires;<sup class="crossreference" style="line-height: normal; vertical-align: top;" value="(<a href="#cen-NIV-29295AX" title="See cross-reference AX">AX</a>)"></sup></span> <span class="text Eph-4-23" id="en-NIV-29296">to be made new in the attitude of your minds; </span><span class="text Eph-4-24" id="en-NIV-29297">and to put on<sup class="crossreference" style="line-height: normal; vertical-align: top;" value="(<a href="#cen-NIV-29297AZ" title="See cross-reference AZ">AZ</a>)"></sup> the new self,<sup class="crossreference" style="line-height: normal; vertical-align: top;" value="(<a href="#cen-NIV-29297BA" title="See cross-reference BA">BA</a>)"></sup> created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness." -Ephesians 4:22-24</span></i></b></span></blockquote>
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Yesterday, on my way to The Hole I was conversing with God and I said, "...I don't want it to just be me, drinking some coffee and chatting with friends."<br />
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I've been struggling a lot with the "next phase" of ministry in The Hole. The last few weeks have been mostly to be there and to comfort the community, however I could, after the loss of Lepido. But five weeks out and life seemingly is going back to normal. <br />
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I do have a tendency to always want to <i>do</i> something rather than just <i>be</i>. Like, just <i>being</i> isn't good enough.<br />
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I've caught myself having this conversation with God a lot the last week or so. Not wanting this to just be a reunion of friends. I want ways that I can bring Jesus to people who don't know Him. I want real conversations about real life that bring about discussions involving the Bible and what God has to say about things. If I just wanted to drink coffee with friends I could stay in my own neighborhood.<br />
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Yesterday, as all of us "hens" were sitting around outside drinking coffee I began to notice something that I hadn't taken notice of the last couple times there. We have had a small following of teenage boys that "hang around" while we are all outside chatting. They hardly ever interject into our conversations and they pretend like they are not listening. But I catch them engaged in the conversations out of the corner of my eye.<br />
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One of the boys is Carmen's 16-year old son, who they call Bunga. He was recently laid off of work because of shortage in supply and he now has entirely too much time on his hands. Five weeks ago, he and I barely had a relationship. He would barely say hi to me and he acted "too cool" whenever I was around. Something changed after his dad's death. I don't know if it was the fact that I came to his dad's funeral or if I was just someone who consistently showed up in his life but today as he came to hang out he made sure to come hug me and ask me how I was doing.<br />
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Earlier in the afternoon, Yuleidy, was carrying two heavy buckets of trash to be dumped in the river. Being pregnant and the fact that both her brother-in-law and her husband were sitting there while she walked past with the buckets, I felt the urge to say something.<br />
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I teased Bunga (although my words were serious), "Bunga, I need to teach you something today." He shyly smiled, and continued sweeping the porch. "Yuleidy, who is pregnant and younger than you, just walked by carrying the trash from <i>your</i> house. Do you maybe see a problem with this?" He continued sweeping with his back to me but every time his face turned I could see his shy grin. "Taking the trash out should be the responsibility of the men in your house. Yuleidy cooks and cleans and takes care of her daughter. Don't you think she might need help with something like the trash?" My words now caught the attention of Yuleidy's husband sitting close by.<br />
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"Bunga, you have the chance to be a good man. To be an example to the younger boys around here that look up to you. Do you hear what I am saying?" A couple of the teenage girls around us all snickered and commented that Bunga doesn't listen to anyone. I said out loud, "Bunga listens to me. He knows that I love him. He knows what I have to say is important."<br />
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Bunga continued sweeping. You know when someone has a smile on their face that to everyone else it may say "I'm just letting the 'old hen' talk" but you know that the wheels are really turning? He had that look. And when he turned around and stopped sweeping he smiled at me. Like, a real smile. Not one that is just to appease the 'old hen' but one that says "I'm listening."<br />
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After I spoke to a friend today about the experience she called it a "teachable moment." Something I initially thought was so unimportant was revealed to me to be incredibly important. The more I thought through it and the more I rolled it over, God very clearly said to me, "Goody, no one has ever expected anything of him. Today, you gave him expectation. A standard that he can live by and live up to."<br />
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So as I struggled for the past week wondering what my next "move" was in The Hole I have been given anticipation and hope for more teachable moments. For opportunities to invest and expect more than anyone else ever has from these youth. To break chains of generational sin. To stop cycles that seem so impossible to stop...<br />
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...except when I have the chance to teach a boy to take out the trash.Mike and Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00315103876397876586noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24922942.post-11344498589825413772012-09-26T20:45:00.001-04:002012-10-16T12:07:55.571-04:00Fresh Coat of PaintI am going to balance my <a href="http://www.braistedadventures.blogspot.com/2012/09/pour-out.html">last post</a> of no photos with a post with A LOT of photos!!!<br />
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Last week we painted Carmen's house. Carmen is a friend who's <a href="http://www.braistedadventures.blogspot.com/2012/08/the-place-my-heart-calls-home.html">husband</a> was murdered almost a month ago in The Hole. While chatting over coffee one day she mentioned that every time she walks by or sits down on her front porch the memory of Lepido's death flashes in her mind. She felt like she had to live it over and over again. <br />
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I am naturally a fixer. I am naturally a creative thinker and if there is one thing I have learned in my life it's that a fresh coat of paint is a good way to start new.<br />
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I am not suggesting that painting Carmen's house would take it all away and life would go on normally and roses would bud around every corner. But there is something to be said about beautiful change. About recognizing grief, finding a way to help you cope and looking toward what your "new normal" can be. And even though paint doesn't bring a husband back, the look on a wife's face when her home has a little facelift sure makes me think we could change a whole lot of yuck in this world with a simple can of paint.<br />
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I am always very hesitant to post anything without a photo. I feel like without a photo to go along with what I have to say it's just not as thought-provoking. But today I don't have a photo. I didn't even take my camera out. But I still feel like God speaks through words and not just pictures. So I will write even though I have nothing to draw you in first.</div>
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The ladies and I have been planning for weeks to do our next outreach project. One of the ladies suggested we paint the nails of some of the elderly women who are somewhat "shut in" their homes. I thought it was a great idea so today was the day.</div>
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I showed up to the Hole and two of the women were still working and not sure when they'd be home and several of the other women were cooking and couldn't come along. So it was just me and Yudy.</div>
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We set out to find our first "viejita" and my friend, Ani, suggested her mom. So Yudy sat down and meticulously painted her toes and then her fingers. We handed her a verse I had written out on pretty scrapbook paper and we went on our way.</div>
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The next woman's house we stopped at had just gotten her nails done and didn't want them repainted. "Maybe another time," she said. We prayed for her and her son that was in prison, handed her a pretty printed verse and moved on to the next house.</div>
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We stopped at my friend, Elisabeth's house and asked if her Mom was around. She was down with a cold and didn't want to leave her room.</div>
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I could feel disappointment creeping in. I could feel myself saying, "But God...we are doing this in your name, why can't we just have some women that need their nails painted?" As we walked around the barrio I was talking to myself in my head thinking that I didn't even have any spectacular photos to post or "God moments" to speak of on our blog. (I know, it disgusts me as I write it)</div>
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We were already into our "quest" an hour and only one set of nails painted so we walked a little ways to another elderly woman's house. I was hoping with all my might that she wanted painted nails and that there was sufficient available light for some stellar photo-taking. She was sick and didn't want to smell the odor of nail polish and gracefully declined. So I dutifully prayed for her that she would get well and that God would be present in her current illness, all the while speaking loudly in my head the disappointment I felt about the day. I just wanted to go and sit down, drink some coffee and chat with my friends before I went home.</div>
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I knew the next house over, the mom of one of the girls in my class was not doing very well. About a month prior she had a portion of her intestines removed and it was causing her some grief. Yudy and I walked over there to find Rosa Angelica's mom laying on the couch, crying out in pain with her grandmother holding her hands; tears streaming down her face.</div>
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A month earlier I had prayed for her, just a day after her surgery, that she would heal well. In that month she hadn't had a bowel movement or been able to eat anything without vomiting. She was frail and thin with an extended belly.</div>
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I leaned over her and placed my hand on her surgery scar while Yudy prayed. I could hear the "Amen" in the background of my mind but felt the urge to pray on. I whispered to my God and pleaded with Him for her suffering. Her children were all around me with concerned looks on their faces. I continued, asking the Holy Spirit to fill the room and asked that God would be present with us at this time of need. I honestly don't know what I was expecting to happen, I just didn't feel like I should stop praying for whatever it was.</div>
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As I lifted my head, she groaned in pain. It was then that I realized that for the 5-7 minutes that I was praying she was silent. Painless. But the pain returned and I just knew this wasn't the kind of thing that would just go away. I suggested we take her to the hospital.</div>
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After a bit of banter and a bit of arguing we convinced her to go. I still had my bad attitude on my shoulder, wanting to stay in The Hole a little longer and drink coffee with my friends. But God gently reminded me that He had different plans.</div>
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We loaded up in my jeep, her and three family members, and headed for her doctor. I could feel a little cloud of guilt hovering over my head. We arrived in about 20 minutes and as each person got out of the car they thanked me and I told them that I was "at their service," a phrase that is used here to basically say "it's nothing, I'm here if you need me."</div>
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As the car door closed I was absolutely disgusted with myself. God probably had the plan for me to be there for Ana Patria from the beginning. He wanted to invite me into an opportunity to serve someone in His name. And as far as she was concerned, I did that. But I knew in my head that I was still such a child when it came to spiritual maturity. That I can still do so many things right as a follower of Christ and still be so selfish when it comes to how <i>I</i> want to do ministry.</div>
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As harsh as I was being on myself God whispered two words to me to remind me that I am still a work in progress: "Pour Out."</div>
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<b>Pour out</b> your life for others.</div>
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<b>Pour out </b>the love I lavish on you, onto others.</div>
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<b>Pour out</b> your expectations.</div>
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<b>Pour out</b> your plans.</div>
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<b>Pour out</b> your guilt and your disgust in yourself.</div>
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God has been on a very clear mission to sharpen my character this year. To mold me to be more like Him. And I have been struggling for the past month with pride. I've never considered myself to be a prideful person but I am learning that pride comes in many different forms. I may not struggle with the outward pride that everyone sees -- where you boast, and talk about how amazing you are and put others down because of your awesomeness. But what I have been struggling with has been sneaky, and ugly, and it has been quietly slipping into my heart. The kind of pride that fakes humility. The kind of pride that fishes for compliments. The kind of pride that seeks recognition. The kind of pride that repulses me about others, has slowly crept into me.</div>
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In the gentle refinement that only my Maker is capable of, I was reminded that just because I do things in the name of Jesus doesn't mean that He is always my motivation. <i>And He needs to be. </i> Bringing people to Him needs to be my motivation. Pointing people to the cross needs to be my motivation. Taking the spotlight off of myself needs to be my motivation. <br />
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A life <b>Poured Out</b> needs to be my end result.</div>
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Mike and Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00315103876397876586noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24922942.post-59869237306416294632012-09-07T18:53:00.000-04:002012-09-07T19:13:51.303-04:00god said bring nail polishbefore i left for The Hole i felt God say, "bring nail polish." <br />
i thought, "seriously?" <br />
"yes, i'm serious." <br />
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what unfolded was one of my most favorite days i have ever had in The Hole that completely revolved around the fact that i had brought nail polish. one by one, women gathered, curious as to what we were doing. one by one, women sat down picking through, deciding what color they should use. i looked around at four generations of women; painting each other's nails, laughing, chatting like hens and chicks and i couldn't help but feel that quiet pass of peace that only happens every so often. that moment when all is right in the world and not a thing could taint it. when god, this earth, his people and life collide in just the right way that you have a taste of what it must have been like in the garden of eden before darkness entered the world. and as quickly as it comes and as short as it stays it makes you long for the next moment like that to come again.<br />
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we talked about coffee, we drank coffee and made even more coffee. we talked about painting the step we were sitting on because carmen can't look at it without remembering that horrible night. we talked about the community and what it's going to take to change a place like that. and we talked about babies and breastfeeding and turning ninety-five.<br />
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i felt for the very first time in six years that i wasn't just a visitor in The Hole. that i was adopted, somehow, into this place that invited me to hear the deep hurts and joyful triumphs of everyday living. somehow, i have been given the privilege to enter into this sacred barrio and feel like i was sitting on my own front step. <br />
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all because i brought some nail polish.<br />
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i walked down the familiar stairs that i have gone down hundreds of times before. although this time they seemed eerily unfamiliar. today they were crimson-stained and told of the early morning events that unfolded in my sacred place: The Hole.<br />
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i didn't make eye contact with the twenty or so people seated on the concrete staircase and i didn't let a word leave my lips, not even my normal salutations that they are accustomed to. i could feel the salty water behind my eyelids waiting to be released and i was afraid if i did anything but walk briskly i'd be unable to stop the niagara falls.<br />
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i veered left down the alley and saw Minino and Wilfreidy sitting in their doorway, trying to process in their eight year old and six year old minds the heaviness that plagued their barrio. i gently kissed and hugged them both, not holding on too long as to not release the gates too soon.<br />
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a hundred people lined the path, familiar and unfamiliar faces. i may have walked past people i knew only because i was looking intently for my Carolina. her cousin saw my lost demeanor and grabbed me by my hand and led me into her home. my eyes took a minute to adjust to the darkness and lack of electricity but i saw her sitting there, pretending to sip some soup.<br />
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when our eyes met i knew the time had come, i couldn't hold it in any longer, and as i embraced my dear friend and stroked her hair i cried with every cell in my body, unable to contain its release. she only whispered softly as if speaking to someone else, "mataron mi papa, goody, mataron mi papa." <i> i know, sweet girl, i can't believe he's gone, either</i>.<br />
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we held each other for a few minutes, wiped away our fading mascara and held hands as we made our way through the crowd. a place that is normally piping with energetic kids in pajamas and women drinking coffee is now silently mourning the loss of one of their own.<br />
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in the school courtyard, i hugged <i>his</i> brother, Juan, and we shared tears, kisses on cheeks and disbelieving head-shakes. i found Yudy, my peace, my saving grace, and cried some more as we said, "it doesn't seem real," over and over again. i entered the school building surprised to see a coffin. i wasn't sure what kind of situation i was walking in on but i definitely wasn't ready to see <i>him</i>. so i scanned the room quickly and found his widow, my dear Carmen.<br />
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unhelpful women bent around her, trying to force her to guzzle down soup. i could see in her eyes as they stared blankly at the floor that the last thing she wanted to do was eat. i stood between her and her groom and she glanced at me, initially thinking maybe i was just another well-wisher wanting a hug but when her mind came back to reality and saw that it was me, we were lost in tears and half-mutterings and shaky knees.<br />
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i sat there holding her hand for a half an hour, fully knowing that <i>he</i> was five feet from me, never letting my eyes get above the legs holding up <i>his</i> casket. i stared at the fading candles, crooked and leaning as they dripped wax on the concrete floor. i felt the urge to get up and fix it, make the candles straight, clean up the falling wax, but that would mean being too close to <i>him</i>. i wasn't ready for that.<br />
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<i>his</i> boys came in and out, sometimes staying long enough to cry over their father or touch <i>his</i> forehead. other people entered, whipping out their cell phones to take pictures of <i>his</i> face. i thought about getting up and griping at them but i know, culturally, death photos are perfectly acceptable. finally the room was empty except for the priest, some randoms, <i>his</i> widow and me. now was as good of time as any, i have to pay my respects before i go.<br />
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i pretended to fix a broken slat on the window on the opposite side of the room. i relit a candle that went out directly above his head. i touched the side of his casket and brushed some dust from its edges. and then i looked first at his hair trying to prepare myself for his face.<br />
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he looked like he was sleeping; the advantage to the viewing being only a few hours after his actual death. no makeup, no waxy look, no fake eyelashes. it was just Lepido, asleep. i hadn't realized it at the time but i must have looked like i might fall or something because Yudy suddenly appeared at my side holding my elbow and putting a hand around my waist. her touch must have yanked my subconscious out of wherever it was because i began sobbing in that moment.<br />
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it was then that i saw his fatal wound, the one that i somehow missed for the other five minutes that i had been staring at his face. along the side of his jawline, a series of deep stitching, holding his skin unnaturally together. i thought to myself, "he didn't have a chance." i put myself there, at 3 a.m., wondering if i had been there would i have been any help at all. if i had been hanging around with all of them, eating empanadas and sipping a cold drink would my presence have made a difference? my out-of-date cpr training. my amateur knowledge of holding pressure on a wound or putting on butterfly bandages. no. with a wound like that, he didn't have a chance.<br />
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most of the next couple hours were a blur. i held his grandchildren. i hugged his children. i prayed with his widow. i couldn't wrap my mind around the fact that literally a week ago he hugged and kissed me and asked when the summer teams were done. <br />
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i still can't wrap my mind around it.<br />
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i'm sure if you are reading this you are thinking Lepido and i must have been close. sure, i've drank coffee with him. i've talked life with him. i've taken pictures of him and his family. nothing that would equate to using the word "close." i have tried and tired to think of reasons why this is affecting me so greatly and i have come up completely empty. i haven't slept much at all since the event occurred. i think about it when i have a free moment from sippy cups and cartoons. i pray about it when i'm walking from my front door to my car. i can't shake it. i can't explain it. i have no resolution.<br />
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i <i>do</i> know that The Hole holds my every cell. my passion lies in those concrete alleys. my compassion lies with those shoeless children. and maybe, i can't shake this because Lepido was part of that place. the place that i love. the place my heart calls home. and a little piece of my heart just might have gone with him when he left.Mike and Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00315103876397876586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24922942.post-50946995155179910412012-08-05T18:42:00.000-04:002013-05-05T18:42:32.548-04:00Photo of the Week...7/17-7/24<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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although i cannot share all the details of this story, just trust that it's a good thing you don't know them. and although it would be easy for me to make this entire post about how unfair life is and how awful people are, God showed me very clearly that regardless of what humans do, He is still in control. He will take what people intend for evil and make it good.</div>
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as he strolled into the clean, church building you could almost cut the tension with a knife. people's eyes were already welling up with tears, although we were trying hard to not let him see. he calmly joined the silent group with a tentative smile on his face. i tried to smile, wondering how on earth he could even muster one up.</div>
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this week was for him. and although others were there, he was the inspiration. a deaf teenager, living in a trash dump, never learning an actual language to communicate with others. on this island, children with deformities or disabilities are often cast aside like the daily trash. they are not cared for. they are seen as a hindrance. most of the time they are taken to a government orphanage so someone else can deal with them, that's if they aren't aborted first. but Yordy's mom loves him. maybe not the way some judgmental hearts might want her too, but she loves him the best she can.</div>
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as spanish signing cards were waving around and new conversations formed with hands and expressions, his eyes lit up with hope. he wasn't the only one anymore. there were people here that wanted to give him language. that wanted him to know that he is anything but a castaway. that he has value and that he belongs to a kingdom that reigns above the dirty river his home sits next to.</div>
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i watched him closely, looking for the remnants of his recent horrific situation. instead of angry or hurt eyes, he smiled so often that i was blown away by this young man still so filled with joy. but there were moments. when no one was looking, and just i was watching, the smile would slip away. his eyes would look downward and his mind would wander. remembering. but almost as quickly as his smile left it was almost as if his heart reminded him that today was a new day, and his smile reappeared bigger and brighter than before.</div>
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i can't really explain all that those few hours taught me in a room full of people, signing a language i barely knew. but God showed me through a deaf teenager whose future, according to this world, holds nothing but disappointment and ridicule, that joy can be found in every moment. even amidst our worst nightmares, God has a redemption plan bigger than we could ever imagine. and His grace extends beyond language, culture or circumstance.</div>
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i could feel it in the pit of my stomach. the sinking feeling that God was doing something that was going to hurt. he was going to break my heart all over again.<br />
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as our van trampled through the pitted dirt roads i could see the mound of trash burning off in the distance. a mix of machinery and working men looked like figures in a cartoon because surely <i>real</i> humans wouldn't be in that sort of situation.<br />
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i closed my eyes and tried to prepare myself for what i knew was coming. it was five years earlier that i had come here and had my heart broken for the <a href="http://www.braistedadventures.blogspot.com/2007/10/400-pesos.html">first time</a>. i was hoping a repeat story wouldn't unfold. i was quite naive.<br />
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there is something about La Mosca that brings out the worst type of christian in me. i feel angry and bitter upon entering its fly-infested streets. it makes me want to slap neglectful parents in the face as i stare at their lonely, unloved children. it makes me want to curse at the owners of the garbage dump who exploit these people and trap them in a pit of poverty. it makes me want to have a conversation, not a pretty one, with the evil one who owns these streets and holds its inhabitants captive.<br />
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its dark and it feels hopeless.<br />
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i could feel my subconscious working over time to harden my heart, to make it numb. it knows full well that if i let myself feel this place, sink into its grief, i might not be able to pull myself out.<br />
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the medical clinic was going great. nothing too serious to report. a few scratches and skin infections but mostly female issues dominated the morning. i felt like i was going to make it. i had successfully visited La Mosca without mourning over them and curling into a fetal position in the corner of the church. but i made a simple mistake. i looked out the window. i saw plates of food being passed. i thought i would go take some pictures.<br />
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i rounded the corner to fifty kids sitting on the cement floor with plates of food in their laps. not unusual. i've seen nutrition centers before. heck, half of my summer is spent in them. but i caught her eye. a little girl who looked like the Dominican version of my little girl. let the breaking begin.<br />
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i scanned her with my eyes from head to toe. hair disheveled. scrapes on her face and back. scabies scars from her neck to her feet. a pair of shorts, tattered and clearly too big for her. no shoes. and suddenly my own blonde-headed beauty flashed before me. this time with matted hair and calloused feet.<br />
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she didn't smile, she didn't react, she didn't play. she just stared. her deep brown eyes staring at the big black thing i was holding to my face. little did she know that it was my protection. i've shed many tears behind my lens, unknowingly to the world. and this day was no exception. they flowed without end, or sound, as i imagined my baby girl sitting on a cement floor, eating rice and beans, wearing her brother's shorts and with itching wounds all over her body. bugs, literally laying eggs in her flesh and clawing their way out after they've hatched. this little girl's reality became my reality. she became my daughter.<br />
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pain and suffering used to be something i ran from. trying so desperately to make "light" of something that so evidently couldn't become just a phrase for an optimistic person. more and more God is teaching me to meet people in their grief. hurt with them. suffer with them. dive into their pain as deep as they are in it. its in that place, and only in that place, that we can truly understand what Jesus did for us. what He asks us to continually do...share in His suffering and the suffering of His beloved.<br />
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i don't know if she understands the life that surrounds her at the ripe age of two. nor do i know the plans He has for her. but i know something...God keeps allowing me to ache for these little ones and the injustice of their situation. every bit of suffering i feel for them does more and more to drive me to seek justice for those who can't seek justice for themselves.<br />
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and after all, even in what seems like the most hopeless of situations, i still got her to smile. just maybe hope is on the horizon.<br />
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<br />Mike and Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00315103876397876586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24922942.post-56774679264316062272012-07-04T18:45:00.000-04:002013-05-05T18:47:26.310-04:00Photo of the Week - 6/26-7/3<div style="text-align: center;">
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you might find it strange that my photo of the week is a photo of one of our staff. you might find it stranger that it isn't of an adorable kid in one of our ministry communities. but this moment, this picture impacted me so greatly this week that i couldn't help but make this photo, my photo of the week.</div>
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you could hear a pin drop. and in a country as loud as ours, that's saying something. you know when you can tell something big is coming, whether you know what it is or not, something in you just knows? all your senses hone in on what is taking place before you. you are acutely aware of how people are positioned, where they are looking, who is drawing the attention. you wait in anticipation for "the event" to occur, not yet knowing what exactly it is going to be. i was waiting, expectedly.</div>
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the young men that surrounded me, somewhere around two hundred of them, were fidgety. some of them knew it was coming too. others didn't want the words to be spoken. still others were waiting for the charge. to be part of something bigger than any of them even knew possible. because in reality, nobody ever really expected anything of them anyway.</div>
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i could hear it in Will's voice. he wasn't going to shy away from this conversation. he knew this was the moment. he knew a week like this was his platform. God's platform. Will knew that if he wasn't bold, if he wasn't real, if he didn't hit them where it hurt, then all of this they'd been doing would have been wasted on deaf ears.</div>
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he started to talk about fathers. risky subject. maybe you or i have a pretty good picture of a dad because we grew up with amazing ones. but these boys don't have that good fortune. a majority of the fathers here are the furthest thing from what a father is supposed to be. and when i say majority, i'm not exaggerating a statistic so you'll be blown away; the cold, hard truth is good examples are few and far between. they abuse their children, beat their wives, drink incessantly. and that's if they are around. most "fathers" are but a vapor in the wind. you only speak of them when signing official papers or are enlisting in school and the school officials need to know your father's name. do you know a couple dads like that? i know twenty; and they all live on the same street. </div>
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so when Will brought up their fathers, for most of them it was like opening a wound they would rather just put a bandaid on. but Will wasn't having it. he knows that if something doesn't change, 99% of the kids sitting in that room would grow up to be just like their fathers. abusive. deadbeats. criminals.</div>
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Will asked them to raise their hands if their fathers drank a lot. more than half the hands in that place shot to the roof. the others raised their hands, not physically, but with a disgraceful expression. "how many of your fathers hit your mom?" less hands went up this time but their expressions went from disgrace and shame to hurt and angry. "how many of your fathers hit you?" only the hands of the younger boys stayed up. the older ones know you don't let others see that kind of truth. "do you want to be like your dads? do you want to follow in his footsteps? do you want to abuse your kids and beat your wives and get drunk every night?" i could hear the quiet sound of influence passing over the crowd. the sound of sniffing and tear-wiping began too.</div>
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there was this moment when i could barely see through my own tears and i watched as Will's eyes welled up too. i realized THIS is God's redemption plan for this island. maybe the young men who are here, listening, will change the course of an entire community. maybe looking back ten years from now we could track a new generation of husbands and fathers to this very room. maybe, all it took was one guy from louisville, kentucky to charge these boys to be Men of God. and almost as if it were rehearsed, when Will asked this room full of broken boys if they wanted to be Men of God they chanted back at him, "Hombres de Dios," with fists raised in the air. not because they were expected to or they would win a prize if they did it really loud but because the flame was lit and the torch was passed and for a room full of boys, the buck was stopping here.</div>
Mike and Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00315103876397876586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24922942.post-88668998519919186342012-06-16T18:48:00.000-04:002013-05-05T18:48:55.386-04:00Photo of the Week 6/5-6/12<br />
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it's been harder on me since we have returned from the States. it's almost like i forgot for a short time just what life is like for the majority of the people living here. everywhere i look i see hungry kids, hurting families and satan's strongholds. like my eyes have been opened...again.<br />
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even though i know God doesn't want me to stay in this place, it's still a good place to be. to be reminded that we are on a battlefield. we are waging war against the most deceptive army known to man. we are fighting for little souls that don't even know yet why we are fighting.<br />
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as i watched her in her teenage mom's arms i tried hard not to feel hopeless for her. wondering what on earth i could possibly do to change her circumstances, to keep her from following the broken path ninety-nine percent of her friends will. God reminded me that i am armed with the strongest weapon available to anyone. a weapon that our enemies will never possess. a weapon that heals the wounded, saves the lost and brings justice to God's people.<br />
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i can pray for her. i can battle satan in a spiritual realm that so many people forget they are able to tap into. will you join me? will you pray for this little one to stand apart from the crowd? will you pray that she will have supernatural abilities to fend of temptation and live a life radically for Christ?<br />
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God is calling us to to stand in the gap for His people, especially the ones who are unable to defend themselves. could you imagine this little one fighting satan on her own? she needs me. she needs us. she needs the body of Christ.Mike and Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00315103876397876586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24922942.post-74564451593542735452012-06-08T18:50:00.000-04:002013-05-05T18:51:03.778-04:00Photo of the Week - 5.29-6.5<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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hello there, you little dominican beauty...<br />
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i know God has a plan for you. plans to prosper you and not to harm you. to give you hope and a future. my prayer for you is that you find your identity in Christ; not in boys, clothes, or the things of this world.<br />
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remember this time, your youth, and the things that make you smile. remember the freedom and the little things that make this time in your life so carefree.<br />
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keep putting flowers in your hair, just for the fun of it. keep dancing with your friends in the street, just because you can. keep walking through that church door, reminding yourself of a big God who cares so deeply for you.<br />
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i don't know your circumstances but i know that you are a child of Him who wants to do immeasurably more than you could dream or imagine. let Him. let Him use you for His kingdom. let Him mold you and shape you. let Him take control and show you His way...because, after all, it is the best way you can take.<br />
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you are the future generation of a culture that is going to radically change this island. you are God's solution. He has chosen you to be a part of a revolution.<br />
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you are a warrior even at your young age. <br />
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<br />Mike and Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00315103876397876586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24922942.post-569463714518514652012-02-21T18:51:00.000-05:002013-05-05T18:52:17.737-04:00Photo of the Week-2/12-2/19<div style="text-align: center;">
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meet linda (pronounced leen-dah; means cute, adorable, beautiful). hey there, pretty girl. she lives in <span style="font-style: italic;">the hole</span> and she's been my photo of the week <a href="http://braistedsphotography.blogspot.com/2010/07/photo-of-week-720-727.html">before</a>. except before, i didn't know her. before, she cried at the sight of me. before, i hadn't stepped into her world.<br />
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it's been a strange transition working so closely to the ministry happening in <span style="font-style: italic;">the hole</span>. i figured i would become more emotionally numb to it since i see it at such close proximity. but, quite frankly, the opposite has happened.<br />
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i remember when i was explaining life in <span style="font-style: italic;">the hole</span> to a short-term missions team for the first time after i began working there. i said my usual stuff, expressed the need there, shared how tough life can be. and i cried. like, to the point that i just wanted to jump out of the van, find a corner and curl up in it. it no longer was just a story i told. it was her story. linda's story. i know kids now whose parents leave in the morning to go to work, lock their kids out of the house and make them fend for themselves until they get home. i know girls who are basically child prostitutes with no self-esteem or feeling of worth. i know parents who hardly have enough food to feed themselves, let alone their eight children. and it breaks my heart even more knowing their real life stories.<br />
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but for me, what keeps me coming back, what keeps me taking the long staircase down into this dump are the smiles i get when i turn the alley to the church. linda, who was so petrified of me two years ago, is now one of my most enthusiastic welcomers. she will stop whatever she is doing, run barefoot and jump over trash and dirty water just to rest comfortably in my arms. talk about redeeming people. god's already working on her little heart, changing it from fear and uncertainty to trust and love.</div>
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Mike and Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00315103876397876586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24922942.post-42052012328903626672012-02-14T13:59:00.007-05:002012-02-21T21:32:25.782-05:00To see what He sees...I've read over and re-wrote this post several times. Nothing I wrote ever seemed right. I've searched and prayed and contemplated why this could be and have come up empty handed. The fact is, explaining what you see does this place no justice. All of the most eloquent words in the world could not accurately describe the feelings you feel as you walk through Phaeton. I've felt pain, hopelessness, adoration, gratefulness, confusion, hope...and the list goes on.<br /><br />Within my first hour in Phaeton, I had this uneasy feeling. Praying, I asked, "God, how can I accurately depict what you are doing here? I don't even know what I am feeling, how can I explain <span style="font-style: italic;">that</span> to others?" I usually hear some type of response in my head, be it the holy spirit or my own ponderings but after a while of silence I simply said, "Ok, then, can you just help me see this place how you see it? Can you help my camera capture how your heart feels for this place?" Without Him even having to respond, the uneasy feeling I had before simply disappeared and I had a zest for capturing my surroundings like I hadn't had in months. Sometimes God speaks so audibly, giving me clear direction and instruction. 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href="http://s1039.photobucket.com/albums/a474/braisteds/Love%20Blog/?action=view&current=Haiti2012-14.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://i1039.photobucket.com/albums/a474/braisteds/Love%20Blog/Haiti2012-14.jpg" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a><br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://s1039.photobucket.com/albums/a474/braisteds/Love%20Blog/?action=view&current=Haiti2012-29.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://i1039.photobucket.com/albums/a474/braisteds/Love%20Blog/Haiti2012-29.jpg" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a><br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://s1039.photobucket.com/albums/a474/braisteds/Love%20Blog/?action=view&current=Haiti2012-3.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://i1039.photobucket.com/albums/a474/braisteds/Love%20Blog/Haiti2012-3.jpg" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><div style="text-align: left;">To read my Haiti experience last year, click <a href="http://www.braistedadventures.blogspot.com/2011/01/no-one-has-ever-seen-god-but-if-we-love.html">here</a>.<br /></div></div></div></div>Mike and Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00315103876397876586noreply@blogger.com3